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15 Signs You’re a Passive-Aggressive Driver 

Passive-aggressive drivers are among the most dangerous motorists around. They wreak their silent brand of vehicular mayhem without considering the risks.

People afflicted with this personality trait endanger the safety of others. Whether the potential victims are drivers, passengers, or pedestrians, passive-aggressive motorists spare no one.

Could You Be a Passive-Aggressive Driver Without Even Knowing It?

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Are you a passive-aggressive motorist? Passive-aggressive types play the victim if challenged. It’s them against the world. But their grievances are often figments of their overactive imaginations.

Here are 15 telltale signs you might be a passive-aggressive driver—and why you should get a grip.

Tailgating Other Drivers

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A telltale sign you’re a driver with passive-aggressive tendencies is tailgating. It’s never wise to drive so close behind another motorist that a rear-end collision will likely occur if they slow down suddenly. 

One thing to remember is that the at-fault party in most rear-end accidents is the driver who collides with the vehicle ahead. You won’t have much wiggle room to mount a credible defense. So, give other drivers room.

Delayed Response to Traffic Signals

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If a driver behind you upsets you, and you retaliate with a delayed response at a green light, it’s a sign you’re having a passive-aggressive episode.

There are better ways to express your emotions than intentionally holding up traffic. If someone’s getting on your nerves, change lanes and go about your way.

Cutting Other Drivers Off

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Another no-no is cutting off other drivers. Some passive-aggressive motorists—upset that drivers ahead aren’t moving fast enough—might change lanes, speed up, and abruptly merge in front of the slowpokes. But doing so might force others to slam on their brakes. Considering how dangerous this can be, it’s best to relax.

Brake Checking

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While passive-aggressive drivers often love tailgating drivers who incur their anger, they don’t like when the tables are turned. And they might respond to being tailgated by brake checking. 

This dangerous behind-the-wheel behavior involves slamming on the brake to force the person doing the tailgating to do the same. But if the tailgator doesn’t react quickly enough, a rear-end collision is possible. A driver who brake-checks is the type of person who will cut off their nose to spite their face.

Driving Too Slowly in the Fast Lane

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Everybody knows you’re not supposed to hold up the left lane. If you’re going to drive slowly, stay in the right lane. You should only merge into the left or fast lane when you need to be in that lane. But motorists with passive-aggressive leanings often drive slowly in the fast lane to get back at others.

Changing Speed Haphazardly

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Erratic road speeds can be dangerous as other drivers won’t know what to expect. But that’s the sort of vehicular mayhem passive-aggressive motorists like to pull off. Of course, if you tell them what they’re doing is wrong, they’ll project their bad behavior on others.

Refusing to Make Eye Contact

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When driving, paying attention to what’s happening around you is important. You also need to communicate with other drivers, which sometimes means making eye contact so you can understand one another.

If someone wants to merge ahead of you and you ignore them, they may hesitate. This can make the situation dangerous for other motorists.

Parking Improperly

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Another sign you might be a passive-aggressive motorist is if you park inconsiderately. Do you double-park by taking up multiple spots? If so, someone else might not be able to park. However, someone with an attitude problem might not be overly concerned about inconveniencing others.

Failing to Use Turn Signals

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It’s essential to use your turn signals so other drivers know what you’re going to do. But some drivers with passive-aggressive tendencies do whatever they want without regard for the rules of the road. This is especially true if they’re upset at another driver.

Making Disrespectful Expressions

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Let’s face it. Sometimes, drivers do things that get under your skin. It’s normal to get upset when provoked. But resorting to rolling your eyes, shaking your head, slapping your forehead in disgust, or flashing a single-finger salute won’t help matters. It only makes matters worse.

Blasting the Horn 

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Some drivers use their horns like musical instruments. Use your horn responsibly. If the slightest provocation triggers you to blast your horn, you need to relax. You wouldn’t want someone to blast their horn needlessly—so don’t do it to other drivers. 

Blocking Another Motorist’s Path

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Another passive-aggressive driving behavior to avoid is blocking other drivers. It happens when someone refuses to let another driver merge or won’t adjust their speed to allow a motorist to change lanes or exit the freeway. Engaging in this sort of behavior can be dangerous.

Activating High Beams Unnecessarily

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People in rural areas know how and when to use high beams responsibly. When driving behind someone, it’s best to keep the high beams off unless there’s plenty of distance between you and the car in front of you. 

If a vehicle approaches from the opposite direction, turn the high beams off until the driver passes. It’s etiquette that makes driving safer. Unfortunately, some drivers use their high beams as a weapon to disorient those who upset them.

Speeding Up to Block a Driver

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A passive-aggressive driver has no qualms about speeding up to prevent someone from merging. It’s not just about refusing to adjust one’s speed. It’s about intentionally hitting the gas pedal to force a driver to wait.

Confusing Other Drivers

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A particularly dangerous passive-aggressive behavior is intentionally confusing other drivers. For instance, some motorists will make a sharp right or left turn without signaling their intent.

Others may change lanes without signaling or considering other drivers who might be forced to slam on the brakes.

Avoid These Passive-Aggressive Behaviors

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Can you relate to any of these 15 passive-aggressive driver behaviors? Hopefully, you can’t. But if you’re guilty of any of them, consider the risk to yourself and others. Driving is a privilege, not a right. And your privilege can be taken away for passive-aggressive tendencies run amok.

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